Daily lesson 2 – Door slamming

Winchester, UK – 10pm

I’m guilty. Today I “door slammed”.

If you, like me, are an INFJ or into typology, then you’ve probably heard the term.

A nice definition I’ve found is this:

This door slam is a sudden occurrence – they emotionally cut people out of their life abruptly…an accumulation of boundaries that have been pushed too far, buttons that have been pushed too many times, and needs that have gone ignored for too long for the INFJ …a deep-seated lack of concern for their emotional well-being.

What’s the lesson here?

Trust your intuition and have the courage to let go sooner when things are not in alignment.

Even if it doesn’t feel right in the moment.

Make us to choose the harder right instead of the easier wrong and never to be content with a half truth when the whole can be won. – Cadet Prayer, US Military Academy West Point (stumbled on this while reading the book “Conversations with major Dick Winters”, where he talks about character)